How to find Love that lasts in this big wide world.
Despite outburst of the population, it is tough to find the true love. After crossing 30 it is a dangling? Weather ever you would find your soul mate. Seeing all your folks and friends happily settled in their love and families makes the situation all the more worst. Being too judgemental and selective often bounces back. Passing years and age makes it compelling to hang out on the pubs, bars, networking sites, dating sites and all possible places to brush through your special someone. After trying all possible options it seems a farfetched and a too daunting task to find the true love.
Stop self-pity/criticism: Love yourself the way you are. Do not rush into any relationship just to recover from the past or be in the dating game again. Stop cutting out a sorry figure for yourself or too critical about your actions were taken in the past. Just let it GO like a bad experience/dream or a learning experience to improve in the future and be cautious. Learn to relish the present and stop sulking in the past. The moment is right now, right here, there is no other way but to enjoy the moment and completely live in it.
Volunteer in activities: Dating/networking sites are not fully authentic and more than half of the material is all made up. It is way too risky to take another plunge just like that. When you volunteer that one part you are sure of is the interest the two of you take in volunteering. From there it is easy to pick up the threads and start weaving for a true long-lasting relationship. You never may be the destiny holds a big surprise for you in that pure kind gentle effort.
Be positive: staying positive is the topmost solution to almost all the issues that exist in any stage of life. Being cynical or apprehensive about every move or call is going to only make the things complicated. The vibe is positivity can clear all the doubts and make the two of you comfortable in each other company.
Pick up a hobby: running clubs, gym, yoga, drama, acting, and music, the guitar you name it and out there are a lot of people following their pursuit. In those classes coming across someone holding the same choice and panache like you for their hobby is a bright chance to meet someone special.
Although there is no set rules/formula to find the true love. Its try try again until you succeed in finding that someone special with the same twinkle, care and love for you in their heart and eyes. Let the boat sailing in full swing.