TIP #8 – DON’T BE NERVOUS
Be yourself! Don’t be too anxious and worried about how it’ll all go. Remember, she’s probably nervous too. And make sure not to make her feel uncomfortable in any way. Maybe if you get comfortable with her she may feel you are the person she initially fell in love with.
TIP #7 – TALK LESS LISTEN MORE
Be a good listener on your first date. You want to show her that you are interested in her. So don’t just keep talking about yourself, ask her about her interests. This will show how caring you are. It is totally okay to talk about yourself if she asks, but you should also go ahead and express an interest about her life as well.
TIP #6 – MAKE EYE CONTACT
Not making eye contact with your date is the biggest mistake you can make. Look into her eyes! It helps you build attraction. This shows that you like her. If you do not make eye contact with her while she is talking she may start feeling that you are not interested in her.
TIP #5 – DON’T FOCUS WAY TOO MUCH ON SEX
You won’t have much of a future relationship if your sole intention is only to get her in bed. If you talk to her way too much about sex, it may probably turn her off. Don’t make her feel disrespectful. She will let you know when she’s ready. Show her the respect she deserves and she may be ready sooner than you think.
TIP #4 – DON’T TALK ABOUT YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIPS
Focus on your date and do not get your past relationships in between. Talking about your ex may give her an impression that you are still not over her, which may upset her. And by far that is the worst thing you can do.
But if she asks you about your ex-girlfriends, then just be as brief as possible. And never compare her to your ex.
TIP #3 – DON’T BE Too Cheap or Too Extravagant
Being cheap or being extravagant both are a problem. There is a very fine line. Don’t be too cheap, at least take her to some nice place she’ll enjoy. Also, don’t take this too seriously and be too extravagant. This may make her think you are putting too much effort in impressing her by spending more cash on her, which is not a good sign.
TIP #2 – HAVE YOUR OWN OPINIONS
Complementing her and agreeing with her on your first date is a smart move to make. But you don’t want to look creepy by complementing her way too much. Don’t always agree with what she says, or she may think you don’t have your own opinions and you may not make it to the second meeting.
Disagree with her sometimes. Have a real conversation. Women like guys that contradict them!
TIP #1 – BE A LITTLE MYSTERIOUS
Girls love mysterious boys! But don’t be too extreme in being mysterious as well. On first dates, you would like to know each other. But don’t pull out all the cards on the table right away. Let her make guesses. Leave something for her imagination. Know when to share and when to hold back. This will also keep her interested and thinking about you. And you minimize the chances of messing up the relationship.